Embracing local customs not only enriches your travel experience — it can also open doors to enduring friendships and genuine respect.
Travel is an integral part of who we are. Sometimes, it’s the thrill of new landscapes; other times, it’s the allure of exotic flavours. Whatever drives our wanderlust, there’s always a smart way to forge unforgettable experiences.
Understanding and respecting local cultures can go a long way in earning respect and forging friendships. Not only will you more likely be quickly embraced by the locals, but you will also possibly make connections that can last a lifetime.
Hi, I’m Morgan, a regular article contributor with Frontline. As a seasoned digital nomad, I’ve ventured through 23 countries, from the mysterious expanses of Iran to the icy plains of Iceland. Although every journey brings new lessons, here are my key insights on how to make the most of your global adventures.
When it comes to preparing for the trip…
Once you’ve chosen your destination, it’s wise to familiarise yourself with the local customs. This prep work can greatly enhance your travel experience.
If your trip includes visits to religious sites or cultural events, remember to pack appropriate attire. When in doubt, choose conservative clothing that covers at least your shoulders and knees. Also, take note of local holidays. For instance, in Bali, the entire island observes a day of silence during Nyepi, closing most businesses. As a visitor, it’s respectful to adhere to these practices, even if they are new to you.
There might be occasions when you’re uncertain about how to act. For example, during a day tour in Muscat, Oman, I had the opportunity to swim in a wadi (water valley). Given the conservative nature of the city, I was initially hesitant to swim in just my shorts, especially after noticing signs that suggested more modest attire. However, after my guide reassured me and observing other foreigners doing the same, I decided to join in.
When it comes to engaging the locals…
Beyond the pages of any guidebook lies the real magic of travel — connecting with the locals. Befriending residents can dramatically enrich your travel experience, offering insights and adventures that aren’t available through typical tourist routes.
Start simple: learn a few phrases in the local language. Even if your pronunciation isn’t spot-on, the effort alone is often enough to break the ice and earn you a warm reception. If language fails, remember, a smile transcends any barrier.
To sidestep cultural faux pas, take a moment for a quick online search on “what not to do in [your destination].” Familiarise yourself with the local customs regarding greetings, dining etiquette, and potentially offensive gestures. For example, I learnt the hard way that a thumbs-up in Iran could be misinterpreted similarly to the middle finger in other cultures. Fortunately, my constant smiling softened the gesture, signalling my friendly intentions rather than offense.
Wherever you go, always remember that you are a guest. Practice respect and mindfulness. Adhere strictly to any guidelines provided by hosts or tour operators — they’re there for a reason. Keep your volume down and remain observant of your surroundings, especially in residential areas. If possible, brush up on the cultural and political contexts to steer clear of sensitive topics in conversations.
When it comes to savouring local cuisine…
For many of us Singaporeans, the richest travel memories often emerge from dining experiences. Food isn’t just sustenance; it’s a universal language and a gateway to a destination’s cultural essence. It’s essential to approach each culinary experience with an open mind.
While the adventurous might relish the chance to try every new dish, it’s also perfectly acceptable to pass on some items if you’re certain they won’t suit your palate. There’s no obligation to sample everything; however, staying open to unexpected delights is part of the journey. I used to steer clear of sardines until a trip to Paros, Greece, where a simple platter of freshly grilled sardines, seasoned with herbs and olive oil, completely changed my mind.
Appreciate that each country’s cuisine reflects its unique palate and resist the urge to compare it directly with familiar foods. Often, there’s a deep-seated historical context behind why certain ingredients are used or why dishes are prepared in a particular manner. Rushing to judgment can close off understanding. For gastronomes who thrive on understanding the intricacies of local flavours, taking a cooking class can be an enriching way to engage deeply with the local food and its people.
When it comes to sightseeing…
Tourist attractions draw crowds and while it’s exciting to capture those memorable shots, it’s crucial to remain considerate of others. Avoid hogging scenic spots longer than necessary — snap your pictures and then step aside to review them. Avoid cutting queues and never overstep safety boundaries for the perfect photo, which can include trespassing or taking risky actions like jump shots.
Recent incidents have shown how disrespectful behaviours can sour local perceptions of tourists, such as the disturbances at the Lawson Fuji photo spot or the inappropriate swimming at TeamLabs in Tokyo. Moreover, reckless behaviours have led to serious accidents, like tourists being swept away by sneaker waves in Vik, Iceland, or fatal falls into thermal pools at Yellowstone Park in the United States.
When visiting places of worship, the key is to respect religious customs: maintain silence, remove shoes, and cover your head when required. During my visit to the Golden Temple in Amritsar, India, I wore a head wrap as part of the entry requirements, which I could keep as a keepsake.
Beyond just sightseeing, actively participate in cultural activities to gain a more profound understanding of the community. Show genuine interest and appreciation for local traditions, and you’ll find yourself welcomed warmly. When purchasing traditional items, engage with shop assistants for more insights, and ask about any local workshops or museums. These experiences can enrich your understanding and add depth to any souvenirs or gifts you take home.
A pro tip: Book a guided day tour early in your trip. Local guides can provide invaluable insights and tips that will enhance the rest of your stay.
When it comes to taking photos…
Photography is an essential aspect of travel, helping us capture and preserve the rich tapestry of experiences we encounter. However, it’s crucial to understand the photographic etiquette specific to each country.
For example, during my travels in India, children often eagerly jumped into frame, revelling at the chance to be photographed. Contrastingly, in South Korea, I practiced greater discretion by avoiding direct faces in my shots, respecting concerns over privacy — many locals prefer to blur faces in social media posts or might shy away from cameras.
When visiting religious sites, heritage spots, museums, and galleries, always check the specific photography rules. These rules are in place to protect delicate artefacts and ensure a respectful experience for all visitors. Always ask for permission when photographing people in public spaces — treat subjects with the same respect you would expect from others. To build a deeper connection, consider offering to send a digital copy of the photo as a token of appreciation.
When it comes to environmental impact…
In the face of climate change and overtourism, we can do our part as responsible travellers by adopting sustainable travel practices.
Always aim to minimise your carbon footprint. In urban areas, opt for public transportation, and for longer domestic travels, consider trains. Choose accommodations and tour operators that are committed to sustainable practices. Reduce your reliance on single-use plastics and ensure you dispose of all waste properly, especially in pristine environments like national parks.
Supporting local economies is another effective way to make a positive impact. Purchase souvenirs directly from local artisans and markets rather than from larger commercial outlets. Employ local guides and explore community-based projects and ethical attractions; these often provide the most genuine insights into the local culture and contribute meaningfully to the community.
When I was in Siem Reap, Cambodia, I came across Lotus Farm. The experience of floating on the lake with a local boatman, learning about the sustainable uses of local plants, was profoundly impactful. Similarly, the Phare Circus, which offers educational opportunities to disadvantaged children, was a highlight of my trip due to its heartfelt performances and community support. To further contribute, I often leave my spare change in charity boxes at various locations.
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